Enjoy your special day without worrying about your children.
Your wedding day should be filled with laughter, connection and unforgettable memories, not worries about whether the children are happy, bored or becoming restless during the ceremony, wedding breakfast or speeches. At The Essex Wedding Nanny, we specialise in providing professional wedding nanny services in Essex, giving parents complete peace of mind while they enjoy every part of the celebration.
Our dedicated wedding childcare service in Essex offers a calm, engaging and nurturing presence for children of all ages. Whether you need discreet childcare during the ceremony, structured activities throughout the day, or evening care as the celebrations continue, our experienced wedding nannies adapt seamlessly to your plans. This allows parents, guests and couples to relax, socialise and fully immerse themselves in the occasion, knowing their children are safe, settled and cared for.
Essex is home to a wide variety of wedding venues, from barns and country estates to coastal locations and modern hotels. Many couples host guests travelling from different parts of the county or further afield, often bringing children of different ages.
Hiring a wedding nanny in Essex allows children to remain part of the day while ensuring they are properly supervised and cared for. Parents can enjoy the ceremony, speeches, and evening celebrations without worrying about childcare arrangements or leaving the venue early.
It also creates a calmer atmosphere overall, helping your wedding run smoothly.
Our dedicated wedding childcare service in Essex offers a calm, engaging and nurturing presence for children of all ages. Whether you need discreet childcare during the ceremony, structured activities throughout the day, or evening care as the celebrations continue, our experienced wedding nannies adapt seamlessly to your plans. This allows parents, guests and couples to relax, socialise and fully immerse themselves in the occasion, knowing their children are safe, settled and cared for.
Every wedding is unique. So is every child.
Whether it’s quiet story time during the vows, craft activities during the speeches, or gentle reassurance when children feel overwhelmed, I create a calm, positive experience for little ones throughout the day.
1-2-1 or small group care so children feel safe, settled and included
With The Essex Wedding Nanny, every child feels cared for, every parent feels at ease, and your day flows effortlessly from start to finish.
Check availability for your wedding date today.
Charlotte Carter is the founder and Head Nanny of The Essex Wedding Nanny. She is a registered childminder under the name The Tollesbury Childminder and has built her career around providing safe, thoughtful and high-quality childcare for families across Essex.
The idea for The Essex Wedding Nanny came about while Charlotte was planning her own wedding in Essex. When her venue suggested hiring a wedding nanny, she quickly realised how difficult it was to find a service that matched the level of care, professionalism and reassurance she would want for children on such an important day. Rather than compromise, Charlotte saw an opportunity to create something better.
Drawing on her experience as a childminder and her understanding of weddings from a parent’s perspective, Charlotte created The Essex Wedding Nanny to offer calm, reliable and trusted childcare at weddings. Her aim is simple: to help children feel settled and happy, while allowing couples and guests to fully enjoy the celebration.
We tailor our services to meet your specific needs, but here are some basic packages to help you understand your options. For more information or a more detailed quote, please do get in touch
Perfect for 1-2-1 care and entertainment for your little hero's.<br
Perfect for looking after a little tribe through the day and keeping them entertained
Perfect for a creche-style facility if you have a number of children in attendance
You’re trusting us with the most precious part of your world – and I don’t take that lightly.
With an Outstanding grading as a childcare professional, I bring years of trusted experience and the highest standards of care to your special day.



You can have complete peace of mind knowing your children are cared for by an experienced professional dedicated to creating a safe, nurturing, and joyful environment.
All ages are welcome – babies, toddlers and older children.
Some children need a calm, quiet space. Others want activities and stimulation. I tailor care to suit each child, helping them feel comfortable and included throughout the wedding.
We take a child-centred approach to every wedding. We learn their routines, their comfort items, and what helps them feel safe. Whether a child needs energetic play or a moment of calm, I adapt the day to suit them.
Charlotte creates a calm, nurturing, hugely welcoming environment for babies, toddlers and children of all ages. I've been so impressed with the activities she lays on, her relaxed, can-do attitude and the whole way she approaches childminding. Both of my children absolutely loved spending time with Charlotte, and struggle with leaving as they enjoy themselves so much while under her care. I feel extremely lucky that she came into our lives - and I know my children feel the same way. Thank you, Charlotte!
I was initially quite nervous about leaving my 6-month-old daughter with a childminder, given how young she is. However, from the moment we first met Charlotte, my concerns were quickly put to rest. Charlotte created an environment where my daughter felt comfortable and secure right from the start. Her warm and welcoming demeanor instantly reassured both me and my little one. What truly stands out about Charlotte is her flexibility and attentiveness. She has been incredibly accommodating in following my daughter's schedule and has been a great help with the weaning process. Charlotte has thoughtfully adapted her setting to cater to the needs of a young baby, ensuring that it’s both safe and nurturing.
My son absolutely loves coming to Charlotte and her setting! He is always happy and excited to spend the day with her and his friends. Charlotte is caring, supportive and offers a home-from-home environment. The communication has been amazing since he started and he is thriving in a fun and educational environment! X
Charlotte is absolutely incredible with my son, she is creative and patient and my son adores her. He was waiting on my doorstep 45 minutes before we needed to leave just because he was so excited to see her. Her setting is friendly and welcoming and just like a home from home so my son feels confident and safe to be himself and thrive whilst in Charlotte's care. If I could rate more than 10/10 I absolutely would.
My Daughter told me she had a great time when I picked her up and she’s asked me almost everyday since when she is going back as she enjoyed it so much! Charlotte is very friendly and makes you feel so comfortable and the setting is brilliantly laid out with a mix of educational and imaginative play options. Highly recommend!
A wedding nanny provides professional childcare during your wedding day, ensuring children are cared for, entertained and supported through key moments such as the ceremony, speeches and meal. At The Essex Wedding Nanny, We create a calm play space with books, games and crafts so parents can relax and enjoy your day without worrying about childcare.
Yes. I’m a highly qualified childcare professional with an Outstanding grading through my work as a registered childminder. I hold Paediatric First Aid certification, an Enhanced DBS, and up-to-date Safeguarding and EYFS training. I also have extensive experience supporting children with Special Educational Needs (SEN). This means parents can relax, knowing their children are in safe, capable, and caring hands.
Absolutely. I care for children of all ages, including babies, toddlers and older children. I follow each child’s routine and can support with feeding, naps, bottle preparation and settling.
Yes. I bring age-appropriate activities, including books, puzzles, games and a small craft setup. These help keep children calm and entertained during speeches, photos, and quieter parts of the day.
Yes — this is one of the biggest reasons couples book a wedding nanny. I keep children calm and comfortable during the ceremony and provide supervision during the speeches, ensuring parents can enjoy every moment distraction-free.
Yes. I offer both one-to-one childcare and a pop-up creche option for small groups of children. This is ideal when several families are attending and parents want a safe, dedicated space for children to play.
Most couples secure their date 6–18 months in advance, especially during peak wedding season. Dates are limited and booked on a first-come basis, so early booking is recommended.
Simply fill out the enquiry form with your wedding date, venue and number of children. I’ll confirm availability, arrange a meet-and-greet, and create a childcare plan for your day. A booking fee secures your date.